Chances are if you’ve been actively meeting and dating women – you’ve made one of these common mistakes.
Don’t worry though, most guys do.
The first step to getting better interacting with the opposite sex is by knowing the common pitfalls most guys face.
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But without further ado, I will highlight 3 of the most common mistakes men make from my experience.
Common Mistake #1: Being Needy
If your average guy removed needy behavior from his repertoire, he would be significantly better off. Neediness is a complete turn off to women, as it should be.
Women want to socialize, date, and interact men who have things going on in their life. If you focus too much of your time and energy on the girl – especially at the beginning, you’re going to send her running in the opposite direction.
What is neediness? It’s hard to explain so I will describe it through actions commonly done by guys.
- Jumping through hoops (doing everything she asks right away – not asking for anything in return)
- Phoning her constantly
- Texting her constantly
- Prioritizing her over other things that are important in your life
- Putting a ton of stock into everything she says
These are needy actions that you want to avoid at all cost.
Common Mistake #2: Not Touching Enough
If you’ve ever waited a date or two to start touching her and being playful – you’re making things way harder than it needs to be.
Humans respond very well to touch.
Not starting the relationship off on the right foot by building that connection through touch will make it much more awkward when the time comes.
It’s actually easy. Start with light touches on the arm when she says something funny. Or if you want to whisper something in her ear, grab her by the hand and pull her close to you.
From the moment you meet her, start small and work your way up. It will be a much smoother transition.
Common Mistake #3: Making Her the Center of Your Life
Nothing turns a woman off like being number 1. Yes, there’s a time and place for making her number one – can you guess what it is?
If you said “when you’re together” then you hit the nail on the head.
Women want to feel important, but at the same time, they want you to live your own life.
You need to maintain your own hobbies, your own friends and do things that you enjoy.
If you start putting aside all the things you care about and try and replace it with her – you’re going to destroying whatever level of attraction you’ve built and probably lose her.
There we have it. Short and sweet. Those are, from my experience, the three most common mistakes men make with women.
Now you are aware of them, control yourself and your actions. You will see drastically improved results.